The Easy Way to Quit Smoking
Some individuals say the easy way to quit smoking does not exist. Yet people who have successfully quit
will often tell you that it wasn't as hard as they thought, when they look back. Frequently, they tried
numerous times before and failed and they went back to smoking several days, weeks, or months later. But
then, that one time, they stopped without having as much trouble. So what made it easier that time?
I believe the easy way to quit smoking is through hypnosis and neurolinguistic programming. The conscious
and unconscious minds are the driving force behind so much of what we do. Therein lies the key to why a
person smokes. In my practice I like to uncover the positive benefit the mind feels it is giving the client
by smoking. This may seem a bit odd, but there is a misguided attempt to provide a benefit by smoking in
a smoker's mind. This is powerful and is one of several techniques, that when administered properly
through the use of hypnosis and NLP, make the transition from smoker to non-smoker as smooth as possible.
First off,one important step in quitting smoking is the intent to quit. Sometimes people say they want to
quit, but don't deep down have the desire to give up smoking just yet. A person has to truly want to quit.
Now, can that desire be enhanced? Yes. You can list all the negative results of smoking in your life on a
piece of paper and also list all the wonderful, positive effects in your life of being a non-smoker. Be sure
to write this down on paper, a very important step, as it brings the concepts into the physical world and
will carry much more power as the lists are reviewed. These lists will not only create a real
determination to stop smoking, but are also a very powerful tool in making the transition from smoker to
non-smoker easier. There is no special "time" to quit smoking; when the desire to stop is created, the right
time has arrived.
Usually, the desire to quit is born when an event makes the realization real. This could be physical, such
as a sudden health problem related to smoking or even a coughing fit. It could be as simple as yet another
rise in the price of cigarettes in a tough economy. Or, it can often be a word from a child, friend, or
relative. Whatever the event, the realization that it is time to act is born and is time to be acted
upon.
What rarely ever works is if someone else wants a smoker to quit. As stated above, the smoker needs to
want to quit. Often, in my practice, I am approached by a well-meaning spouse, parent, friend, etc. who wants
to pay for sessions so someone else will quit smoking. I explain I would be happy to do so if the person
wants to quit, but if they don't, then I can't accept their business.
Your motivation might still go up and down but reread your lists and focus on a mental image of you as a
successful, happy, non-smoker. Focus on thinking positively. What a sense of freedom you'll feel when sitting
through a lengthy movie or plane journey without getting anxious and wishing for the end so that you could
smoke. What will you do with all that extra money not being spent on cigarettes every day? Always direct your
mind to the positive results you will experience from becoming a non-smoker.
Most people have activities that remind them of cigarette smoking. Put off those activities for a while
just to make your life easier. Giving up alcohol temporarily is a good idea as it is not only strongly
associated with cigarette smoking, but also because a person's motivation to not smoke is greatly lowered
when drinking alcohol. In the beginning it might be best to limit time with friends or acquaintances who are
hard-core smokers. Second hand smoke carries a good deal of nicotine with it, so quitting while being
exposed to the drug is difficult at best.
At the same time, don't stay home alone with nothing to do. Quitting cigarette smoking can be a little
like losing a friend. Though hypnosis will make it so much easier to quit, it is best to occupy your mind,
your hands and your time. With your newfound spare time not smoking, go back to your favorite pastime, hobby,
or activity. Start with some mild exercise and work your way up, enjoying the new found feeling of breathing
easier and your ever-increasing level of health. Staying active mentally and physically is not only a
good practice while quitting smoking but is also a basis for a happier life.
Should an occasional craving pop up, just let it go by, it won't last long. Using NLP, clients are given
techniques to utilize should an occasional craving for a cigarette occur, so it is less of an issue.
In summary, the easy way to quit smoking, is to quit when you have finally reached that desire to stop.
Then utilize the miraculous benefits of hypnosis and NLP to ensure your success in becoming a new you, a
non-smoker!
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